Preparing For Your First Sailing Trip With Friends


This week we are happy to introduce our newest guest blogger and fellow sailor, Genevieve, of the popular sailing blog, It’s a Necessity: Travelling With Two In Tow. Genevieve and her husband are avid travellers who have spent the past several years sailing in the Caribbean with their two young girls. The Stolz crew live aboard, Orient Pearl, a lovely 100ft Classic sailboat. When not sailing the beautiful Caribbean Sea or building their eco home in Canada, Genevieve can be found writing about the Stolz crew adventures and life at sea. In her debut article on the Zizoo Sailing Magazine, Genevieve shares some tips for preparing for your first sailing trip with friends. Read more from Genevieve on her blog and stay tuned next week for another post.  


Every Guest Should Read Before Visiting

If you’re going to spend your R&R time with some liveaboards, but have never done such a thing before, and maybe feel in over your head, don’t fret. Take a deep breath, read on, and know that soon enough you will be rocking with the waves of the ocean and sipping on sundowners.

Before taking off on your well-deserved vacation, here are a few things that you can expect may happen and things that will be appreciated by your hosts.

First things first, your luggage. Large, hard-case suitcases should be completely banned from any sailboat. No one has room for that, unless you don’t mind having it as your bunk mate. “Confined quarters” means there is room for you, and some of your stuff, not for luggage the size of a secondary small human. We HIGHLY recommend you pack your things in duffel bags, or any soft material bag that you can roll up and stow somewhere once you have unpacked the excessive (see below) amount of stuff you brought.

sailing trip with friendsExcessive packing will most likely happen. Like on any vacation, you always feel you need all of your stuff. Go through your things and ask yourself, “will I really need this for a week long vacation?” Chances are, weather permitting, you are going to spend most of your time in a bathing suit, so pack a couple of those, mostly everything else can be purged from your luggage. A couple shirts, a couple shorts, one pair of pants, a dress, and sunscreen (don’t forget the sunscreen). Outside of your daily necessities you will probably find that you gravitate to the same clothes everyday and will most likely head home at the end of your trip not having worn half the stuff you brought. It’s a vacation, de-clutter your mind, your luggage, and give yourself some breathing space in your berth.

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You don’t want your berth to look like this because you packed too much!

Most boats run off of 12volt power, supplied by solar, wind gens, and sometimes an extra boost from a generator. There will be ways to power your electronics, if you feel you really need to bring them. Keep in mind the salt water environment, you may want waterproof cases for your things; accidents do happen, especially when you up your time around water. You can also leave all that stuff behind, drop off the face of the online world for a little bit, and truly disconnect for your vacation. If an emergency arises, or you really need to check your facebook, your hosts most likely have a phone (with internet) they can lend you…how do you think they got ahold of you to plan this vacation?!

If you get motion sick/seasick and have meds that you have tried and/or prefer, bring them. If not, your hosts probably have some on hand or can recommend some to you. Don’t feel ashamed about it or let it put a halt to your ocean adventures. Even the saltiest salts get bouts of seasickness and there are plenty of tricks and meds that can make the trip absolutely delightful.

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Seasick all around while crossing the Mona Passage.

Tied to the above topic of seasickness, far from the glamorized idea of sailing, you most likely won’t be out on the open ocean doing long passages with no land in sight…unless that’s what you signed up for! Liveaboards’ boats are their home. They usually aren’t out there, healing to 45+ degrees, racing to the next spot. Au contraire, we enjoy taking the boat from point A to point B, where it sits while we live on it, enjoying a new location. Most sailors seek out bays that are known for calm waters and good protection, and although this cannot be guaranteed, it is definitely what everyone is looking for for a good night’s sleep for the guests and themselves. Day trips, and bay hopping, are most likely on your vacation itinerary, and no matter the sailor, no one enjoys sailing in bad weather, and so if that is forecasted you most likely will not find yourself out in the middle of it. Forget everything you saw on The White Squall, your hosts don’t want to put you, or themselves, through anything of the sorts.

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Calm nights make for happy sailors.

When you arrive, if the boat is on a dock then it will be an easy hop aboard. However, this may not necessarily be the case. Enter the dinghyA dinghy is a smaller boat that will take you to the bigger boat. Think of it as a sailor’s car. Depending on the dinghy and the weather, this trip could either feel like you are in a convertible on the autobahn on a nice summer day, or it could feel like you are stuck in a rainstorm and the roof won’t close up. You may get splashed a little. If this is a concern, it shouldn’t be, it’s part of boating. Just don’t be dressed to the nines, and maybe cover up your bag with something (a garbage bag works just fine) to avoid having all of the contents getting wet.

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Your chariot awaits.

Trying to visualize what the inside of the boat may look and feel like? Pictures never really do it justice. The easiest way to explain it to first time visitors is that it is quite similar to an RV. Living spaces are tight but comfortable. Kitchens, bathrooms, bedrooms, running water, it’s all there, just in smaller format than in a house. There is not a whole lot of personal space, but that is half the fun of it. However long your vacation is, it will be filled with friends, fun, and new experiences. You will not be a guest, you will become “one of us”, part of the sailing family. Hopefully you will go home remembering how the smaller space brought everyone closer together, rather than hating that you did not have enough room for the 4 pairs of shoes you brought. Reference back to the “Excessive Packing Paragraph”. Because of the space and the additional bodies, one VERY important thing to remember (which your hosts will love you for), is to not leave your things laying around everywhere. You’d be surprised how little time it takes for a boat to feel overwhelmingly cluttered with stuff. Everything has it’s spot, and should be returned there after you are done using it.

sailing trip with friendsIf you are not an early riser, or if your hosts have kids, earplugs may be your favourite sailing item. Just saying.

Toilets, each boat has its own way of doing things when it comes to this, and most are fairly different from any land toilet you have experienced before. We’re talking about composting toilets, or electric toilets, or levers, switches, pumps and manual force, toilet paper in, toilet paper out, the options seem endless. The boat toilet (better know as “the head”) will be thoroughly explained to you when you arrive. If you forget what to do, or all the steps feel confusing, don’t be shy, ask again. Your hosts will gladly go through it all with you again, and again, and again. Because explaining the toilet process repeatedly is way easier than having to change out a broken “head”.

Wether or not a boat has a water-maker, it is always nice to watch your water consumption. Not to the point of restricting the amount that you drink, but those half-hour showers should be nixed. Instead, enjoy nature and take a few more refreshing plunges into the ocean. However, if you can’t do without your shampoo, conditioner, rinse, repeat routine, then get ready to sweat for that extended shower. Filling up a boat’s water tanks can sometimes be a strenuous activity involving many trips to shore, water jugs, and heavy lifting. All that sweat will defeat the purpose of the original lengthy wash. A “navy shower” could just save you a lot of sweat and effort.

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When you spend your day in the water, super long showers aren’t as needed.

Lastly, leave room in your luggage for your hosts! You will get used as a pack mule, guaranteed. About a month before your expected vacation you will start receiving packages at your place. These are shipments of things that are not accessible in the boat’s current location. You can expect to receive anything from boat parts, to clothing, and every knick knack in between. And you’ll also end up with a shopping list for non-shippable things such as Nutella. This is one huge way you can help your hosts and thank them for your stay, by lugging all of these online shopping goods to their boat.

With the broad strokes made, you should be able to pack up, fly out, and enjoy your time on a live aboard boat. The finer details will come into focus once you are there and enjoying your time aboard, sipping rum cocktails and watching the sun set over the ocean. At that point, all of the pre-stress will feel ridiculous as you will just be enjoying life.


How to be the Perfect Boat Guest

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We all know the proper etiquette for being a guest in someone’s home, but what about being a guest on a boat? Our guest blogger and fellow boater, Louise of Sandy Toes and Writer Woes shares her thoughts about how to be the perfect boat guest while on your next sailing holiday. 

How to be the perfect boat guest

If you’ve not been on many boats before, sometimes boat etiquette can be quite bewildering. With a little thought and consideration though, it isn’t difficult to be the perfect boat guest.

Firstly take your shoes off.

how to be the perfect boat guestJust like in people’s homes on land, on boats its polite to ask if it’s okay to wear your shoes. Deck shoes or white-soled rubber shoes are usually all right on deck, but generally shoes should come off before you go into the cabin. High heels should never be worn on boats because they will mark the boat.

Bring your own towels unless you’re told otherwise.

Laundry can be quite a hassle when you’re on a boat. So unless your host tells you not to worry, it would be a good idea to take your own towels with you if you intend on swimming or lounging in the sun.

Offer to bring bottled water or heavy items.

Most marinas involve a walk from a car or even a supermarket, so lugging heavy items to and from the boat can become quite a chore. If you fancy being really helpful and impressing your host, you could offer to bring some bottled water or other heavy items with you.

how to be the perfect boat guestGifts.

If you want to bring a gift to thank your host, bring something useful. If your hosts like alcohol you can’t go wrong with a bottle of their favourite tipple. Alternatively, small useful things will also always be appreciated. Storage is at a premium on a boat, so large decorative gifts should be avoided.

Be considerate.

Your host will want you to have a lovely time, but be mindful that they’re also supposed to be enjoying themselves. You can offer to help clean up or take the rubbish off the boat with you when you leave. With small thoughtful gestures you can really help your host out and secure an open invitation for future trips.

Don’t use too much water.

how to be the perfect boat guestWater is a commodity on a boat; it comes from a tank with a limited supply. Even if you’re only out of the marina for a short time, your host is unlikely to want to refill the water tank(s) on a daily basis.

Toilet etiquette on a boat.

As a rule- if it hasn’t been through you, it doesn’t go down the toilet. Generally new people will be given a tour of the head and be informed on how to use it. A suitable place for toilet tissue and sanitary disposal will be pointed out but if it isn’t …


If there’s anything on the boat that you’re not sure about then you should always just ask. Then you can relax and enjoy your trip with the knowledge that you’re a great boat guest.


Silly Sailing Superstitions

Sailing Superstitions

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There’s an ocean of superstitions surrounding sailing and whether or not you choose to believe them they’re interesting and worth knowing about. I’ve met sailors that refuse to have bananas on their boats for fear of bad luck and even refuse to have anything that has been produced by a company that has banana in the name! We love bananas for snacks especially when we’re doing a passage and have never had a problem! It’s also widely believed that whistling will cause gales and storms.

Lots of mariners believe that it’s bad luck to leave port on a Friday, especially Friday the 13th! I think this is mainly due to the belief that the crucifixion took place on a Friday. We set sail when we have time off work and the weather is good. We don’t consider the day of the week and so far, fingers crossed, have never had a problem.

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Like lots of other things, it’s considered bad luck to change the name of a boat. According to legend, every vessel is recorded by name and is known personally to Neptune, the god of the sea. If you do rename a boat it’s believed you must have a de-naming ceremony. All traces of the old boat name must be stripped from the boat and then the ceremony can be performed. It’s a fairly simple ceremony conducted by writing the current boat name on a piece of paper, folding the paper and placing it in a wooden box which you should then burn. The ashes have to be gathered and thrown into the sea. To rename the boat you should have plenty of champagne (or a good bottle of rum) to pour over the bow of the boat whilst asking Neptune to bless the boat and all who sail aboard her. Crew and guests should also drink some of the offering. Our boat Nocturne has been renamed, she was previously known as ‘Encore’ but the previous owners decided to rename her. We don’t know if the renaming ceremony was followed but we did find a binder with the name ‘Encore’ on it buried in a cubby! Nothing bad has happened to us as a result in the five years we’ve been sailing her! We love the name ‘Nocturne’ and are happy with it, but if one day we happen to have a boat with a dreadful name we wouldn’t hesitate to change it.

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One of the funniest superstitions, in my opinion, is that it’s bad luck to have women on boats! Some salty sailors thought that women aboard would anger the seas. However, it was also said that a naked women would calm the sea, this is why many older boats have a figurehead with a bare-breasted women with her eyes open to help them find their way through the seas. Since I’m a female sailor, I think this one is complete nonsense!

There are many more superstitions of course but these are the most talked about. We’ve disobeyed all of them and ‘touch wood’ we’ve never had any troubles. Wishing you all fair winds!